Sunday, August 8, 2010

Watching the Miss Fort Worth USA Pageant














Last weekend I went to Arlington to watch the Miss and Teen Fort Worth USA Pageant. The competition was extremely competitive and it was overall a great show. The girls competed in swimsuit, evening gown, and then the top 5 had on-stage questions. The in-between dancers were so fun to watch and I got to do an on camera interview taking about myself and what my mission is for promoting positive mentoring for our nations youth. I really enjoyed catching up with old friends, and I even got to meet our very own Miss Texas USA, Kelsey backstage.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Queen for a Day!

Queen for a Day is an organization that caters to pediatric cancer patients. It give these children one day to be queen/king over their cancer! During the event we pamper the girls by giving them "makeovers" with nail polish and lipstick, they also get to play dress up in costumes of their choosing. The great thing about the event was that the girls were given sashes (donated from www.sashedesigns.com) and a crown of their own to keep. The boys were "crowned" with firefighter hats and a sash that labeled them as "kings", they were not considered queens for a day but "Heroes for a Day". The Dallas fire department came to show the children their fire truck, and to talk about being a real hero! It was such a good time to get these children's mind off the other issues that they are dealing with. I had crowns that were sitting on my shelves collecting dust, I was honored to donate 3 of them to young patients that will treasure it. If any former queens have crowns that are not being used, please think of contacting your local "Queen for a Day" and donating them to a pediatric patient, it will definitely bring a smile to their face! :) www.qfad.org

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Emcee for the Building Inner Beauty Pageant














What I love about the Building Inner Beauty program is that they teach young girls the importance of what is on the inside, and that through that they can shine on the outside. It starts with self confidence and the way that you treat others, it is about making a lasting impression when you first meet someone, it is about making eye contact and smiling even when things don't go your way, it is about how you make other feel that will be remembered. Crissy Garcia makes it her mission to see that young girls get the basis of these ideas, so that they can grow up knowing that they can do whatever they set their minds to and not to listen to any doubt that may come to them in the form of themselves or other people. I was honored to emcee the event with my co-host P.O.K. for the 2nd annual year. I have been involved with this organization through its inception and was glad to be a part of it again! At the end I was even honored with a honorary Miss Inner Beauty Award! I am so proud of our new winners! More pictures to follow!

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Jade Monfils featured in La Jornada News speaking out on gang violence in the Dallas community





I had the opportunity to give an interview with The La Jornada News, one of Dallas's premiere bilingual newspapers for the Hispanic community. One of the questions that I was asked was how I thought parents could get their children to stray away from gangs and gang activities, since this problem is very high with the Hispanic community. Here is the featured article:

"Jade Monfils helps community against gang violence
Viernes 28 de Mayo de 2010 16:57 | Escrito por Guital Ornelas

An issue between teenagers and gang related violence has always been an issue in our community. Not to mention the endless cycle law enforcement has worked on to maintain stability and peace in our community.

Jade Monfils, a 28 year-old fashion designer, born and raised in Dallas, Texas is considered to be a teen hero around her community. She is a full time apparel designer and does part time Modeling , she has also committed herself to contribute in fighting against a tremendous problem of gang violence among teens. She has volunteered over 300 hours of her time at local non-profit organizations like "The Boys and Girls Club" and "Big Brothers and Sisters" where she received an outstanding reward from our former President George W. Bush for helping the community. "This was definitely an honor to receive! It was something that just came about" says the honored Ms. Monfils.

Her love for fashion has motivated her to become a model and a role model for inspired young teens which have admired her work.

She has grown an interested in helping such cause that she helps non-profit organizations mentoring children and encouraging them to grow interest in education. After school programs are offered where teenagers can do their homework, play sports and do other activities. "The Big Brothers, Big Sisters" is a mentoring program where an adult "big brother" or "big sister" meets a few times with a teen to get involved with them and help them by providing a positive influence in their lives.

Ms. Monfils also thinks that a parent should get involved and be positive role models in their children's lives. Ms. Monfils says "adolescent years are very critical in a person's life, and these years need to be spent with positive reinforcement". She encourages parents to maintain a healthy relationship with their children and recommends The Big Brothers, Big Sisters to parents who have troubled kids who are going through a very significant stage in life.

The Dallas area has seen an increase in gang related problems within the Hispanic/Latino community. Ms. Monfils has invested some of her time as well with several organizations like "Bea's Kids" and "Isabel's Community Outreach Center" that focuses in this particular group to help Hispanic teenagers in need.

It has been hard work for Ms. Monfils joining forces with the community to help our young teens stay healthy and most importantly stay away from crime. But you as a parent can also participate in your child's education by attending to school meetings, supervise what they do, and know who they're making friends with, these small but yet amazingly great acts can definitely help reduce the risk of having your child away from the streets. "Just a little time can make the biggest difference in some one life!" Ms. Monfils says".

You can read the online version here: http://www.lajornadanews.com/entrevistas/25-jade-monfils

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Miami Dallas Fusion Fashion Show















I was asked to participate in the fabulous Miami Dallas Fusion Fashion Show that was held in Downtown Dallas at the Mosaic. It was a great view on the 8th floor with the runway right by the water that ran along the side of the building. It was a night that showcased the designs of independent designers from all over the US. I modeled a red dress by Darian Thomas who is a local Dallas designer. Also there were several other queens from all over Texas, it was a great time reconnecting with them all :)

Friday, May 14, 2010

Tips to Help Build a Teenager's Self Esteem

We are all aware that females tend to have less self esteem then men. Young girls face low self esteem while in their teen years, and young boys feel a need to belong to a group. These are the key findings that I believe drives them to destructive behavior. While online looking at Dove's "Real Beauty" campaign I discovered these startling facts:

- 7 out of 10 girls believe they are not good enough or do not measure up in some way, including their looks, performance in school and relationships with friends and family members.

- 75% of girls with low self-esteem reported engaging in negative activities such as disordered eating, cutting, bullying, smoking, or drinking when feeling badly about themselves (Compared to 25% of girls with high self-esteem).

- 57% of all girls have a mother who criticizes her own looks.

- More than one-third (34%) of girls with low self-esteem believe that they are not a good enough daughter (Compared to 9% of girls with high self-esteem).


Now after reading those depressing statistics here are some tips to give young ladies to help build their self esteem :)

1. Celebrate you!
Reward yourself when you have accomplished something! You don't need to wait for others to recognize what you've done.


2. Surround yourself with positive people.
Spend time with people who are upbeat and feel good about themselves. They, in turn, will put a smile on your face and help you feel good about yourself.


3. Challenge yourself to try new things.
Try a ropes course, learn some new dance steps, speak in front of a large group. Stepping outside of your comfort zone to try new things is a great way to grow.


4. Be good to your body.
Exercising, eating well, and getting plenty of sleep will help you move toward a healthier you—inside and out!


5. Find and express the real you.
No other person has the unique combination of qualities that you have! Be proud of yourself and be courageous enough to express your true feelings.


6. Have a positive mental attitude.
A positive attitude is contagious! You'll feel good and people will want to hang out with you.


7. Learn from your experiences.
Learn from your actions—both good and bad, and use the knowledge you gain to make positive decisions in the future.


8. Find the humor in everyday life.
When you can see the funny side of things, you'll be less stressed and more likely to handle tough situations better.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Carter Blood Drive

This weekend my friend Debbie put together a blood drive in Garland. Debbie is a lady that I had the opportunity to meet through Dress for Success, and now she is helping others that are in need themselves. The blood drive was sponsored through Carter Blood Care, and was held outside Lifetime Fitness. I got to meet some very sweet young ladies that were waiting for their mothers that were giving blood, and also mingle with very generous donors that were giving blood to help others!

Monday, May 3, 2010

Want to change a life? Donate blood this Saturday!

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Thursday, April 29, 2010

Jade Monfils wins the Texas Perfect Miss Pageant and is headed to nationals!
















I recently competed in the Texas Perfect Miss Pageant that was held at the Sheraton Grand Hotel in Irving, TX. It was a fun fashion filled event where we competed in on-stage interview (press conference style), swimwear, and evening gown. I was honored to walk away with the crown. My new title is Texas Perfect Miss and I will be competing at nationals which will be for the title of America's Perfect Miss. The pageant is going to be held in Orlando, FL on August 15th. I can't wait to meet all the girls from all over the U.S.!! It is going to be a great experience :)

Friday, April 23, 2010

Miss Fort Worth and Miss Dallas International featured on Fishbowl Radio Network

I love to see our International queens out and about in the community! Here Miss Fort Worth (Rachael Burns) and Miss Dallas (Kelli Ansley) were featured on Fishbowl Radio Network. Great job ladies!! :)

Monday, March 29, 2010

Crowning My Miss Texas International Successor
















This weekend was the 2010 Miss Texas International Pageant. I was there to crown my successor. It was a hard job for the judges, there was plenty of competition. These women are not only beautiful on the outside, but smart, and have a dedication to the community. Each contestant has a personal platform that is near to their heart. The International system is great about helping promote the woman and her platform so that she can help elevate it to a higher level. The new winner is Ashley Smith, Miss Houston and her cause is Breast Cancer Awareness. Her mother is a survivor and she will do a great job this year to help others. It was a fabulous weekend, we had orientation on Friday night and I was so moved to meet all the contestants. Many of them had touching stories about their causes and I just applaud them for being able to speak out and help others who may not have a voice. Saturday we visited the Alamo and had a Riverboat ride on the Riverwalk, and Sunday we had rehearsal all day. Each time I go to a pageant I am just amazed and inspired by everyone. It has been a great year, and I am happy to now pass on the crown! I know that Ashley will do great things this year! :)

Friday, March 26, 2010

My Year as Miss Texas International


I have had a wonderful and fulfilling year as Miss Texas International 2009! I will be crowning my successor this Sunday March 28th, at the Scottish Rite Auditorium in San Antonio, Texas. It has been such an honor to not only hold the title for one year, but to be able to make such a difference in the lives of others. This past year I traveled over 7,000 miles across the great state of Texas. I was able to promote and advocate my personal platform of "Preventing Youth Gang Crimes: Through afterschool programs and mentoring". I also helped to raise over $600,000.00 for youth mentoring and afterschool programs, with Big Brothers and Big Sisters and the Boys and Girls Clubs. I just wanted to say "thank you" to all of my sponsors and supporters! Without all of you I would not have been able to fulfill my dreams!

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

My Dog Leia is a Cover Model!!

My Boston Terrier Leia made the cover of the Dallas Voice this week! It is because she was chosen out of 400 entries, and made Top 10 and was put online for voting. From there she had the most votes and was chosen to be on the cover!! Thanks to everyone who voted for her!! She also got a check in her name donated to LifeBark, which is an organization that is dedicated to helping people living with HIV and AIDS. We were honored to attend a party where we accepted the check for $2500.00.

Monday, March 8, 2010

Judging for the Denton County United America Pageant





















This past weekend I was honored to judge the Denton County United America Pageant and there were so many great contestants! I had so much fun with my fellow judges Jain Hall and Tiffany Sherrell. There were 5 age divisions, where the girls compete in on-stage question, fashion wear, and everyone's favorite evening gown. Here I am with the emcee, national junior teen winner Blair Lynch and Mindy Le the Denton County junior teen winner. I wish all the winners the best of luck when they go to state in June!

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Happy Birthday Texas!!!

Today is Texas Independence Day! It was 174 years ago, on March 2, 1836 that 59 delegates worked overnight to write the Texas Declaration of Independence during the Texas Revolution. It was then that Texas declared it independence from Mexico. The event happened at what is now Washington-on-the-Brazos State Park. To learn more visit: www.birthplaceoftexas.com.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Texas International Workshop and Rodeo Parade
















This past weekend I was in Houston for the Texas International Pageant contestant workshop. About 40 contestants traveled from all over the state to get some extra pointers before the pageant next month. My Mrs. sister queen Bonnie was gracious enough to have all the ladies over before the event for a brunch meet and greet. There we were all able to talk to one another in a casual setting. Afterwards when the girls headed to the workshop- Dymond, Bonnie, and I did an appearance in the Montgomery County Rodeo Parade which was in Downtown Conroe. It was great getting to spend time with my sister queens and showing off our Texas flair! After the parade we headed to the workshop and met up with the contestants who were getting lessons from some of our wonderful sponsors. There was Valerie Hayes www.valeriehayes.com who worked on interview, Misty Twellman who taught walking lessons, and Sheila Ybarra who gave all the contestants a "glam kit" and taught them how to apply the perfect pageant make up www.makeupbysheila.com (I was super excited when she used me as her make-up model)! It was a busy but great day and I was happy to finally meet many of the contestants. There are so many great girls, the judges are going to have a really tough time. But good luck to all, it is really all about your own personal journey during this time so take it in and enjoy it! :)

Monday, February 8, 2010

National Wear Red Day 2/5

National Wear Red Day was Friday 2/5. Thousands of Americans wore red to draw attention to this startling fact, that over 430,000 women are silenced each year by cardiovascular disease and most of these deaths are preventable. I met up with some fellow queens to draw attention to this cause. Here are some helpful hints that will keep you living HEART HEALTHY!

1. STOP SMOKING: If you smoke, quit. If someone in your household smokes, encourage them to quit.

2. CHOOSE GOOD NUTRITION: A healthy diet is one of the best weapons you have to fight cardiovascular disease. The food you eat, and the amount can affect other controllable risk factors such as cholesterol, blood pressure, diabetes and being overweight. Choose nutrient rich foods which have vitamins, minerals, fiber and other nutrients that are lower in calories. A diet rich in vegetables, fruits, whole grain and high fiber foods, fish, lean protein and fat-free or low-fat dairy products is the key. And to maintain a healthy weight, coordinate your diet with your physical activity level so you're using up as many calories as you take in.

3. REDUCE BLOOD CHOLESTEROL: Fat lodged in your arteries is a disaster waiting to happen. Sooner or later it could trigger a heart attack or stroke. You have got to reduce your intake of saturated fat, trans fat and cholesterol and get moving. If diet and physical activity alone don’t get those numbers down, then medication may be the key. Take it just like the doctor orders. This is where those numbers need to be:

Total Cholesterol should be less than 200 mg/dL

LDL (bad) Cholesterol should be less than 160 mg/dL if you're at low risk for heart disease, less than 130 mg/dL if you're at intermediate risk for heart disease, and less than 100mg/dL if you're at high risk for heart disease

HDL (good) Cholesterol should be 50 mg/dL or higher for women

Triglycerides should be less than 150 mg/dL

4. LOWER HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE: It’s the single largest risk factor for stroke. Stroke is the No. 3 killer and one of the leading causes of disability in the United States. Stroke recovery is difficult at best and you could be disabled for life. Shake that salt habit, take your medications as recommended by your doctor and get moving. Those numbers need to get down and stay down. Your goal is less than 120/80 mmHg.

5. BE PHYSICALLY ACTIVE EVERYDAY: Research has shown that getting at least 30 minutes of physical activity on 5 or more days of the week can help lower blood pressure, lower cholesterol and keep your weight at a healthy level. But something IS better than nothing. If you’re doing nothing now, start out slow. Even 10 minutes at a time may offer some health benefits. Studies show that people who have achieved even a moderate level of fitness are much less likely to die early than those with a low fitness level.

6. AIM FOR A HEALTHY WEIGHT: Obesity is an epidemic in America, not only for adults but also for children. Fad diets and supplements are not the answer. Good nutrition, controlling calorie intake and physical activity are the only way to maintain a healthy weight. Obesity places you at risk for high cholesterol, high blood pressure and insulin resistance, a precursor of type 2 diabetes. Your Body Mass Index (BMI) can help tell you if your weight is healthy.


7. MANAGE DIABETES: Cardiovascular disease is the leading cause of diabetes related death. People with diabetes are two to four times more likely to develop cardiovascular disease due to a variety of risk factors, including high blood pressure, high cholesterol, smoking, obesity and lack of physical activity.

8. REDUCE STRESS: Some scientists have noted a relationship between coronary heart disease risk and stress in a person's life that may affect the risk factors for heart disease and stroke. For example, people under stress may overeat, start smoking or smoke more than they otherwise would. Research has even shown that stress reaction in young adults predicts middle-age blood pressure risk.

9. LIMIT ALCOHOL: Drinking too much alcohol can raise blood pressure and lead to heart failure or stroke. It can contribute to high triglycerides, produce irregular heartbeats and affect cancer and other diseases. It contributes to obesity, alcoholism, suicide and accidents.

Visit www.goredforwomen.org for more.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Speaking at Charter School in Oak Cliff

I recently spoke to a group of students at a charter school in Oak Cliff, a section in West Dallas. I had about 30 minutes to speak to a group of about 50 students. The main message that I conveyed to them was to stay in school and to set high goals for yourself. Believing in yourself you can achieve anything. I also shared my story of my friend Lisa who lost her life too soon, and for them to stay off the streets, out of gangs, and to not do drugs. Even though a lot of them are so young I know that they knew just what my message was trying to get across. They all had a lot of questions for me that I was happy to answer, I am so glad that I had this opportunity to speak to them and hopefully make an impact on their life. When they get put in a bad situation I hope that they will make a better decision with the knowledge that I shared with them.

Monday, January 18, 2010

Support the Earthquake Recovery Efforts in Haiti


On January 12, a magnitude 7.0 earthquake struck Haiti just outside the capital city of Port-au-Prince. The devastation – in lives lost, property destroyed, and families displaced – is immense. Our immediate priority is to save lives. The critical needs in Haiti are great, but they are also simple: food, water, shelter, and first-aid supplies. The best way concerned citizens can help is to donate funds that will go directly to supplying these material needs. Through the Clinton Bush Haiti Fund, we will work to provide immediate relief and long-term support to earthquake survivors. We will channel the collective goodwill around the globe to help the people of Haiti rebuild their cities, their neighborhoods, and their families.

Please visit https://re.clintonbushhaitifund.org/SSLPage.aspx?pid=3884 to donate now.

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Please vote for my dog Leia!!

My dog Leia made it to the Top 10 of the Dallas Voice top dog contest out of 400 dogs. Please vote for her so that she has a chance to be on the cover of the March issue of Dallas Voice. There is no need to register for anything, just one vote per computer!

Go to:
http://www.dfwreadersvoice.com/topdog/
and vote for LEIA the Black and White Boston Terrier.

Thanks!! :)